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Tell Me Where It Hurts

by Pamela Kramer

Parents, December 2005

 

Don't know exactly what's wrong with your child? Decode her confusing symptoms -- and help her feel better fast -- with our expert guide to common kiddie aches and pains.

 

Strange Symptom: Pulling at or Poking Her Ear
What it probably is: An ear infection or pressure and pain caused by a cold. She may also have fever, earache, and pus or fluid draining from the ear. Ease your child’s discomfort by applying a warm, moist compress to the ear and giving her an over-the-counter pain reliever. Call your doctor, but keep in mind that he may not prescribe antibiotics right away, since most ear infections clear up on their own after a few days. (He may make an exception for children under 2 years old or children with severe symptoms.)

But don't rule out: Teething -- nerves in the gums travel along the jaw line toward the ears. Other symptoms are drooling, chewing on her fingers, and swollen, red gums. Massage her gums with a clean finger or a wet washcloth and offer her a cool teething ring to gnaw on.

Strange Symptom: Pressing Fingers into His Forehead and Temples
What it probably is: A headache caused by allergies, a cold, eyestrain, dehydration, hunger, or lack of sleep. Give your child juice or a light snack if he hasn't eaten in a while. If he doesn't feel better, have him lie down in a cool, dark room, put a cold compress on his forehead, and give him acetaminophen or ibuprofen. Call the doctor if the pain persists for more than a few hours, if your child also has a fever or stiff neck (which could signal meningitis) or if he gets throbbing headaches regularly.

But don't rule out: A sinus infection, since pain in the sinus cavities often radiates up into the forehead. Other symptoms can include fever, a runny nose, bad breath, and pain in the upper jaw and teeth. Your doctor may recommend over-the-counter pain relievers or prescribe an antibiotic.

Strange Symptom: Holding and Rubbing His Tummy
What it probably is: A stomachache caused by a viral infection or indigestion. This is usually a pain above the belly button that may be accompanied by diarrhea, vomiting, or fever. Have your child lie down, and put a warm heating pad on his stomach. Giving him plenty of liquids can also help. Call your doctor if the pain gets worse, or if vomiting and diarrhea are severe.

But don't rule out: Constipation, lactose intolerance, or even appendicitis. If your child hasn’t pooped in a while and he complains of pain low in his abdomen, it's probably constipation. Kids who are lactose intolerant repeatedly complain of stomach pain after drinking milk or eating dairy foods, and they usually have diarrhea and gas. Appendicitis is rare, but if your little one complains of sharp pains in his lower right abdomen and he also has fever and chills and is sweating profusely, go to the emergency room.


Strange Symptom: Sore Bottom
What it probably is: Irritation due to poor wiping and constipation. Help your child wash her bottom with warm, soapy water, then pat it dry with a soft towel and apply petroleum jelly or diaper cream. You'll also want to make sure she drinks plenty of water and eats high-fiber foods to ease constipation. See your doctor if the problem doesn't go away. He may recommend a stool softener or a prescription ointment.

But don't rule out: A urinary-tract infection. Though it may seem surprising, children often can’t articulate exactly where it hurts down there. Other symptoms include fever, frequent trips to the toilet with little urination, and cloudy or foul-smelling pee. Your pediatrician will most likely prescribe antibiotics.

Strange Symptom: Loud Snoring
What it probably is: A cold or allergy that is causing mucus to obstruct her airway. She may display other symptoms of a cold and complain about a sore throat in the morning (since breathing through her mouth at night is irritating her throat). To help her sleep better, elevate her head with an extra pillow (for a baby, place a book underneath one end of the mattress) and run a cool-mist humidifier. Using saline nose drops just before bedtime can also help.

But don't rule out: Obstructive sleep apnea -- if snoring persists for more than two weeks. Kids with enlarged tonsils or adenoids, or those who are overweight, are most likely to have this condition in which the airway becomes blocked during sleep. Symptoms include gasping for air at night and drowsiness during the day.

Strange Symptom: Bright-Red Cheeks
What it probably is: Windburn. Soothe these dry, red patches that resemble sunburn by regularly applying unscented baby lotion or petroleum jelly and using only mild soap or plain water at bath time. In the future, limit the amount of time your baby spends outside when it’s cold (and put petroleum jelly on his cheeks when you do go out), and always dress an older child in a scarf or face mask.

But don't rule out: Fifth disease, a mild viral infection that is common during childhood and usually produces a rash on the face that lasts for three or four days. Once that fades, the rash often appears on the arms, legs, and back. There’s no treatment, and it usually goes away in seven to ten days. However, women who are pregnant should let their doctor know if they are exposed to fifth disease, since it puts them at risk for miscarriage and other complications.
 
Strange Symptom: Rubbing Her Legs or Saying They Hurt
What it probably is: Growing pains. These usually occur in both legs and are most common during the night. Ease your child's aches by gently rubbing or massaging her calves and thighs -- and showing her how to do the same whenever they hurt. Soaking in a warm bath and light stretching can also help.

But don't rule out: Sprains and muscle strains from excessive running, jumping, and playing sports. These minor injuries are usually in just one leg, and the pain is often localized. Have your child rest her muscles, keep her legs elevated, and apply ice packs for 20 minutes every hour during the day. Ibuprofen or acetaminophen can also help. Call your doctor if the pain persists for more than 48 hours, if she can’t bear weight on the leg or she limps, or if the area swells.

Strange Symptom: Yellow or Green Nasal Discharge
What it probably is: A cold or sinus infection. Other symptoms include fever, headache, and difficulty breathing through the nose. Call your doctor if it doesn't clear up in two or three days.

But don't rule out: A foreign body -- such as a small bead or piece of candy -- stuck in the nose. The discharge will most likely have a foul smell and will come from only one nostril. If your child is old enough, block the unobstructed nostril with your thumb and have your child blow hard to try to remove the object. (Don't use tweezers to try to extricate it -- you may only push the object farther up the nostril.) If that doesn't work, call your doctor right away.

Strange Symptom: Bad Breath
What it probably is: Tartar buildup on the teeth. Help your child thoroughly brush his teeth and gums after every meal, and floss once a day to get rid of stubborn food particles. You should also encourage him to drink water between meals to wash away bacteria and keep his mouth moist. If the odor persists, see your dentist, since it can be a sign of tooth decay.

But don't rule out: Strep throat, tonsillitis, or a sinus infection. These can cause thick fluids like pus, mucus, or phlegm to collect in the back of the throat. Call your doctor if your child has any other symptoms of infection, including fever, sore throat, and swollen glands in the neck.

 

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